I am dad, daddy, and father to my daughter. If your relationship still doesn’t work, then you can rest assured that this relationship wasn’t meant to be. My Son Calls Another Man Daddy; Help Me Understand; The Ghost Of Hank Williams; Take These Chains From My Heart; I Dreamed About Mama Last Night; Be Careful Of Stones That You Throw; No One Will Ever Know If this guy has been there from the start (I hate to break it to you) he probably loves her like his own and they are going to have a special bond, being called dad or by his actual name won't change that, but know that he will protect her, love her and be there for her when maybe you can't. I see my daughter every other week after going through court for access. Ds has his bio dad, and sees him regularly, but still wants to refer to dh as daddy. She won't be fooled again. [CHORUS] My Son Calls Another Man Daddy He'll ne'er know my name nor my face God only knows how it hurts me For another to be in my place. Lyrics to 'My Son Calls Another Man Daddy' by Hank Williams. 'real daddy' and 'other daddy'? X. I don't have this problem with my stepson although the problem I have is that he has been told by his mum to love his stepdad and show this emotion but he has been told stepmums don't get love! He made the choice himself, at 3 1/2yo. This guide is all about getting that one last chance to make things right. I couldn't imagine what you are going through..hearing your daughter call someone else daddy..ugh your ex wife sounds like she has some major issues..I would seriously try to talk to her about this..You are a good dad and deserve the title as father. I am dad, daddy, and father to my daughter. stop hating and start loving. My mum and dad are separated and I would be insulting my dad if I called my mums partner dad, my children don't refer to my mums partner as grandad either because he's not! I felt really touched by this and he said he loved me, but by next week 'stepmums don't get love' He's good with daughter an she obviously like him which I'm happy about. Read about My Son Calls Another Man Daddy from Charley Pride's There's a Little Bit of Hank in Me and see the artwork, lyrics and similar artists. Grandparents calling their grandchildren 'my darling' 'my sweetheart' - normal. 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Not even she can question that, nor does she (at least to anyone i know of). The Social Worker will ascertain whether or not Children's Services need to review your daughter's situation. i think you should put yourself in her place. what does it matter what she calls someone else ? He's now 6. Listen to My Son Calls Another Man Daddy by Hank Williams on Deezer. Let me make it clear that in a healthier family, if your daughter calls this man dad, it is just a label. Very true. Very long story short... my ex and i split a year ago. I'm not sure you are going to be able to change this situation, which is a real shame. The two younger girls' father has been in all three girls' lives since the oldest girl was younger so they all call him daddy and rightfully so. She is the baby in our "family". Fast forward to now... she has my daughter calling her boyfriend "Dad", boyfriend has been around for probably 4 months prior to us splitting, he was "just a coworker and just a friend" but now is her soon to be babies daddy. i'd really like moms and dads opinions. I found out about an affair and when i finally called her on it she left. I would never tell any kids how they should feel, my hubby has accepted that his sons stepdad will be in his life for a long time so obv at some point in his life we will feel something towards his stepdad but telling your kids how to feel to certain people especially parents is wrong! Each night I laid there in prison I pictured a future so bright I know this is difficult, heartbreaking at times, when this happens but by joining the fray you can only confuse your daughter further. This is a very common story for an experienced Judge so don't be scared by all the crap about "the wife always gets the kids" because it's a myth. 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